Getting On In Your Life

The progress you are making in life can be stated quite clearly, to consist of only three constants, your past was but a moment ago, your future is but a moment away, and in the middle is your present. You will often find out that when you are stationary in the present, you will become aware that nothing seems to happen at various times because you need “Now” to make any progress forwards into the future, you will find out that you also need “Then” so that you can recall the past and the knowledge it has taught you. Finally, you need “Next” so that you can expand your learning, and these three together will create a chain reaction towards your next step. So “Now” linked with “Then” linked with “Next” will help your life progress much faster than it may have to date if all three are used correctly, that is. Sometimes, the past will not be of any use for a while; other times, it is best to adapt but not forget the past and move on before the past is cold.


Every day that you encounter others in your life is a day that is teaching you who you really are, and as you learn who you are, your knowledge will increase, so becoming wiser than your earlier life allowed you to be will be a real asset in your own daily life. You will also find out that as you learn more about your individual life, you will find that it is up to you to stop playing the roles that you are not comfortable with and, in some cases, to stop playing roles that are not real as well. Role swapping as you grow older is important to our progress and learning. You may and will find that it is a good indication that your true identity needs to be found and asserted by you and not by someone else, sometimes it is up to you to try out some method and role acting as the days go by. You should find that it easy for you to identify yourself and remember that the past cannot hurt you again as it already has done, even though bad memories may persist for a while. Do not fret as the real you will begin to emerge and take a stronghold of your daily life; ironically, the less you try, the more you will benefit in some of the self-improvement steps, you will soon barely notice that the artificial you are being pushed away.

To many of us, life is a one-way system, either we are always on the take from others around us, or we are seemingly very generous all we have and our money, it is a good idea to find the middle of the road, if either of these traits is dominant in your life, you are sure to end up with less of everything if you are not careful. There is no one way for us to go, learn to feel for ourselves, feel what we really want out of life. You will be able to feel the softer bumps and scrapes as they happen, then you will have a good excuse to park up and let life pass you by, but it is not a good idea for us to think and feel this way, as who really wants a dead-end life for themselves? Do not be despondent about life and the knocks you receive now and again; sometimes, we must drive a bumper car along the road of life to get somewhere in our life.

Though you may get what you want at the end of the day, sometimes it can be so slow at arriving, you sometimes wonder if you are really getting anywhere fast at all, this, in turn, can make you feel that progress concerning an aspect of your present life is a waste of time, but as you try to get on in life try to remember that to run you have to learn how to walk first. This state of mind may well indicate that you should try out some different tactics for a while and push ahead to try out some different routes. If you can have some faith in yourself and learn to rely upon and trust in others as well, then you will have a good chance of success during the difficult periods of your life. So at the various adventures that occur in your own life, try your best to live in the present, but not if you rely on those around you that seem to be helpful, the future will not arrive if you let the present take hold, a few may be genuine cases of support but others may not.

The depth of perception that is a matter that is in hand, or may even be related to any matters that you are trying to, or wish to achieve in your life, is and are going to become more apparent as your own patience, knowledge, and awareness slowly develop. As you grow, various aspects of your own life are going to improve for you steadily, and believe it or not, and it can happen quite soon; even though it may be limited to the inspiration that is behind it in the first place, you will get there in the end. So as soon as your patience is sufficiently developed, you will steadily make some more progress; remember the various steps forward will not happen until your patience has grown, so until then, the depth of your own perception will be limited by the shallowness of your own mind.

Someone wrote that the secret of flight is to throw yourself at the ground and miss; even though this may sound absurd to you, it does have some relevance to your daily life; there are times when an answer is not evident in any form, no matter how hard you may look for it, but bearing in mind that there are no insurmountable problems in our daily lives, we should try to remember that some take longer to solve than others, also try to bear in mind that some problems have absurdly simple answers, we somehow manage to miss these as well, try not to despair when your mind goes foggy at times like this. There are always sensible, logical conclusions to any problem that you have to solve, but as so often tends to happen and quite frequently in some cases, not all the conclusions we are looking for are easy to find. So once a problem has been solved, you will have the experience to draw upon, and you can use it to help others as well as yourself, but not by giving them the answer you came across, as some leeway for learning has to be given to them as well, instead you should steer them towards solving the same problem that you had in the past.

While you are attempting to communicate with a certain party and that certain party is displaying an apparent desire, not to hear what you have to say and it also seems they are doing their best to impose their own will on you at the same time, means quite simply that at the end of the day, neither of you are going to get very far at all, in your attempts at talking with each other. The advisable tactic that should be employed at this time is to speak softly to the party concerned, and you will find that this nearly always produces a positive result. Anyone that will not take heed of a shot will almost always strain to hear a whisper, and you should find that someone who is determined not to listen will not want to miss out on something that may be of interest to them; either way, they will make an effort to listen to what you have to say. Finally, the message you are trying to get across will get there, and it will sink in.

When you are feeling cut off from others in your life, are firm of the opinion that the barriers you encounter are a normal way of life for everyone. If you feel or believe that these barriers are not for going around, you will not get as far in your life as you really want to. All the time that you feel a seemingly complex barrier turns up in your life, a barrier that seems to stop you from progressing any further in your life, pause for a short while; it is not a good reason for you to cede defeat. If you are not careful, your own life will grind to a halt, as feelings of doubt take over, making you believe that the barrier you are now up against cannot be overcome, by believing that all your barriers will disappear without any moves on your part this feeling is nothing but a pipe dream, remember that you can and will learn to beat your barriers with a little determination on your part.

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All of the barriers in life, be it a case of are they large barrier problems for us or are they relatively small ones, whichever way that you look at them, they are all going to need a course of action so that they can be solved by us (either alone or as a group of two or more), either way, they are going to need a plan of action before they can be dismantled, rebuilt and mastered. Having yourself a plan of action loosely available to you at any time is sometimes an advantage, by no means employ any hard and fast rules, try to move forwards gently, so the next time a barrier presents itself, you will be able to reduce the pressure that is on you. You can relax and create an inner peace of mind first; this, in turn, enables the barrier to be lowered more comfortably for you; in turn, the peace of mind and the inner peace you feel will show that life is not all uphill. All the knowledge that you have to date will come in handy growing as time passes; your biggest allies are your experiences to date.A negative thought that has been put to you in the past and then allowed to gel in your mind is and can be incredibly damaging to your own life if you allow it to control and dominate your own daily life for no good reason at all. You cannot change your past life, but you can adapt it to suit the present situations that involve others around you, this will mean that you will not ruin a good future that could lie ahead, but if you do not take precautions to the right your mistakes, you could easily be deprived not only yourself but also others around you of enjoying an active, pleasant life as well.

Fools do not know how to dream, the young and the ambitious among us need to dream, and the wise do not need to dream at all. But if a fool can learn how to dream, then the fool will have learned to have some honest ambition in life. If the young can achieve their dreams without any interference from any fools that choose to interfere, the young will gradually join the wise ranks. The main difference between a dream and reality is that the latter cannot be achieved if the former has not been recognized and placed in its proper place in your life today; Dream-reality is a step you can achieve if you are careful and conduct yourself properly. Try not to allow yourself to put down any sudden inspirations that you or another person may have without an excellent reason, or to put down the good idea that seems to appear as if from nowhere. You will often find that in the correct time and place, both can be worth far more to you than any written material or any oral advice can ever be; try to remember that both sources of ideas are capable of improving various factors in your life and not all progress forwards in life comes out of a book.


Learning processes that you come across during your life can be very complicated at times. They can vary in how they present themselves to you, so always be on the lookout for anything that may trip you up when you least expect it to. Also, bear in mind that you may well find that sometimes the easiest way to solve a particular problem on your mind is to throw away the available instructions and press on, using your own common sense and logic. Still, at this point, you would do well to remember that trial and error situations should never be taken for granted by anyone.The best ideas will nearly almost always be found, to be the most straightforward and obvious, that is, once you have seen and recognised them as such, so once such an idea has been located, try your best not to worry about the fact that it was hiding right under your nose all the time. The very fact that it has shown up at this time is mainly down to the fact that you have more knowledge and experience to draw upon than was true a while ago, so now because of this you will be either able to give the idea all it deserves, or you can shelve it for later on. Remember that the more experience you have, the more you can do; never give up learning as it will always stand you in good stead; used wisely; life will never be dull.

When you combine past experiences in your life with the knowledge that you have learned to date, you will find that you can make some large steps forward to boost your own confidence and those around you as well. These areas are usually in areas that, until now, may have been very difficult for you to attain without assistance from others around you in the present as well as those in your past daily life. Experience can be defined as a combination of knowledge and errors rolled into one, try, to be honest, as you can be with yourself, as you will find that experience without errors has no solid foundations, is very likely to ruin your very own life progress as it moves ever onwards.

There comes a time in all our lives when something has to go, be it physical, material, or even human or animal, this state of affairs will not just occur once in your life. It will reoccur in a variety of guises every time it happens. Taking this into account, you should always have a perfectly valid say about the matter in hand on each occasion, that is, if it affects you in any way, if it does not affect you in any shape or form, then it is none of your business. It is right for you to speak out about matters that concern you, and you will find that any reasonable party involved will listen and interact with you rather than against you. But do not forget that silence is your own worst enemy in cases, so if you turn a metaphorical blind eye to a matter that you are involved in, and then you will find that others will not act for you, instead of acting with you, the ensuing result may not be in your favor. So why not try standing your ground for a change? Doing so, you will not give any opposition the upper hand. It is a case of being wise for the event and not being wise after the event.

If you do your best at something that you are involved with, possibly in some cases may be striving to do and working hard to achieve the goals that you are working towards, sometimes a particular something that you believe in will be more apparent in due course, if not straight away, but not in all cases so do not fret too much if things do not work out the first time for you, remember that even the most clever cannot win at first base all the time, your level best is all that is expected from you, no reasonable person will expect more than that from another concerning a task. Doing your best, in turn, means that some useful coincidences will be forthcoming just as you need them to happen.

The dream that you are currently nurturing inside your head is not only very special to you, and it is also feasible as it exists at this time. Bearing this in mind, it may well change as more progress is made. Still, it will need one more thing to make sure that the feasibility stays possible, a whole lot of patience is required plus, a fair amount of modification has to be done to any advancement you may make before you can fully experience the joy of seeing it unfold before your very eyes. Events that took place during your life as a child will stay with you in your memory forever, you will find that a lot of these memories will be happy ones, but a few of them will have left a rather nasty taste in your mouth (every event that happens and affects your life in some way will do this) This should not be a cause for concern as the effect will not last forever if you make efforts to learn and adopt the positive issues present in each event.

There is and are certain situations that you are currently facing at this time, situations that may have factors that known or unknown to you, could have possibly triggered some ancient memories in your life, after several years of various problems growing under your belt, you now have a chance to see those memories through adult eyes, remember that the past cannot hurt you again unless you let it do so, try and remember this as you attempt to conquer any of these unreasonable fears that you may have.There are two alternative routes that you can take to achieve some success in a venture that you are currently involved in at this time. The first move is to keep on pushing and pulling in every direction until something snaps, or until you achieve the result you want, but in so saying, you will find that this certainly exhausts you before you achieve anything, but you will win in the end. Or you can use the second option, and that is to suddenly let go of everything so that you can then watch your opposition collapse all around you, as they lose out due to the lack of skills you have acquired through patience in your life so far to date.

You are now moving in the right direction in your life, but you will only move as far as is feasible for you to go at the moment; everything that you have achieved to date is due to your learned knowledge and patience, do not allow yourself to get big-headed or you will lose your direction in life. You must try your best not to force certain issues or matters that arise in your life. Everything has time to be solved by you, and rushing things can upset the apple cart if you are not careful, so if you do not use force in your decision-making, you will reduce the chance of making some errors. Despite the various pressures that you are currently under to succeed, try to slow down a little and try and adopt more patience, then employ the patience that you have learned to date and remember that time is on your side.

Getting from where you are now to attain the position you wish to reach in your life will take time, as it will be a roundabout route that you have to take. Although this may prove rather annoying for you, you must go this way, but remember that shortcuts are not always a viable alternative in life. So to blindly rush ahead will only cause you delays and setbacks in your daily life; you should go ahead and follow a safe and secure route to reach your goal in life; another point to try and remember at this time is to try not to ruffle the feathers of those around you as you try to progress onwards in life. Your progress to date is with the help and guidance of others, never forget them or walk over those in your life today.

Try not to give up in despair as all is not as bad as it is painted; you will make very good progress in the project that you are currently involved in, provided that you do not give up halfway, try to apply some patience to the strong points you have and soon you will see that all you need is some resolve, you will find that with some determination you can get on much better in life, this will enable you to push ahead and sort out the good elements from the bad elements that you are facing at this and any time.No matter how much is going on in your life at the moment, you must try to do at least one thing well, rather than trying to do several things at the same time, be careful not to overstretch yourself and do other people’s chores as well, you will find that it is best to try and concentrate on each matter in turn, that needs resolving by you alone, not to leave them for others to solve. There may be times that you will be able to delegate, but bear in mind there will be times that you should follow others, and if you are sensible, others will be willing to help you out, whichever path you are following at the time.

The destination that you are currently heading towards in your life, be it alone or with others, may seem at this moment in time seem to be a very long way ahead of you, but it is in sight even though it may only be a glimmer in the distance. Bear in mind that you have already come a long way and that the rest will not be as hard as it seems to be at present. The snowball effect is taking place around you, and it will give you plenty to be happy about, as long as you do your best and remember not to take any false shortcuts on the way to your destination. The learning process that you are currently going through in your life may well oblige you to look at unknown areas now and again, so take heart this is not as daunting as it may seem. The learning process is ever-present, and you will find it may even touch on sensitive areas that you would rather forget about. No matter how hard the path lies ahead of you, you will find that the outcome will be very worthwhile and well deserved.